Do you withhold love in order to protect yourself?

Sep 13, 2022

Do you withhold love in order to protect yourself? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Was withholding taught to you as a young one to protect yourself from being hurt?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Are you overly identified with giving and receiving?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Do you doubt your ability to receive?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Do you experience struggle with receiving the love you want in your relationship?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Do you experience a pattern of come close but ✋🏼just close enough?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Do you experience yourself as not worthy of receiving?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Do you tell yourself I’m a great giver just not a good receiver?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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My ❓ for you is.. Where are you withholding love?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Can you pinpoint where you withhold love? Where you create a barrier, where you create the imbalance that shows up as imbalanced giving and receiving.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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God touches our traumas for healing through our triggers🪞 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Let’s peel back the layers of this onion⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Let’s get to the core of your giving and receiving story in your relationship.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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👉🏻Acknowledging + Owning ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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👉🏻Taking 100% Responsibility where I was not giving and where I was over giving (which builds resentment) to compensate for the places I wasn’t giving helped me create the balance inside myself. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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👉🏻 Acknowledging that I am 100% Creator of my reality helped me shed the victim story of I’m not capable of equal balanced relationship. (This was a core pattern that my parents played out)⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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👉🏻Taking baby steps to balance where it was out of balance in my love life. This began to heal the out of balance perspective I had adopted and learned to hold in my consciousness as a core way of relating. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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💎 Releasing my need to withhold love from myself in any way opened the door to all I want in love and life. ⠀

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